Archive for August, 2009

Monday Blues

Monday, August 31st, 2009

Mondays have become more of a bummer since having the baby. Before the baby, one week was just another week that wasn’t much different than the previous one. It’s not like I was missing much while I was at work. The older our little girl gets the faster she seems to evolve. For example, about three weeks ago she first started trying to feed herself with finger food. The first day didn’t really go all that well and more ended up on the floor than in her mouth. But by the end of the week she was two fisting it with a new sense of purpose in life!

During the week, if she wakes up early enough I get to see her for a few minutes before leaving for work. And I normally only get to see her for about an hour or so in the evening when I get home. I do bath time at around 7:00, read some books and then it’s lights out by about 7:30. So needless to say, when she has a big week of advancement I largely don’t get to be a part of it. Fortunately, Karen gets to stay at home and often documents many of the “first” moments of things on video so I get a better sense than most working parents.

Today was my live fantasy football draft which began at 6:00 this evening. Because of the timing, I didn’t get to see my little girl at all this evening :( . Although, this morning I got to retrieve her from her crib, change her poopy diaper and deliver her to the teats before I left for work. And then my wonderful wife pinged me just before lunchtime to see if I wanted to meet them out for lunch. As luck would have it I was available and was able to spend some time with them during my lunch break. So today wasn’t a total loss on that front.

On the plus side, Monday is almost over, leaving just four more days before the long weekend. Now I’m just left wondering what the heck happened to the first 8 months of the year?

Hello World!

Sunday, August 30th, 2009

Sorry, I just had to use the geeky title.

Last year my wife Karen started a blog right around the time we found out that she was pregnant. It was mainly just a nice way for the family to follow along with all of the developments of our rapidly growing new addition. However, she recently became a lot more active in her blogging and it became apparent that I don’t necessarily share ALL of her perspectives on our journey through life together.

She’s currently a stay-at-home mom, and as a result, spends a lot of time with other new moms she’s met through various mom/baby activities. Since it’s a bunch of mommies hanging out with their offspring blathering on about their new lives as mommies, their view of the world is decidedly skewed to that of being a mommy.

I have the unfortunate job, of having a job, to ensure that our little family remains solvent as long as possible with my wife out of work raising our kid(s?). And by “work” I mean the paycheck kind; I’m well aware that it’s a lot of work to take care of the baby all day! So aside from being a male, which clearly predisposes me to different views anyway, my experiences are often very different in our child-rearing journey because I’m just not around as much.

Now, to be clear, I’m in no way suggesting that there are any faults in my wonderful wife. She truly is an outstanding mother and wife, and I’m so incredibly grateful for everything that she does. I love her dearly. She merely has a different perspective – sometimes.

So bear with me as I slowly put this place together. I’m sure it should be easy since if you’re reading this you’re likely the only one :) .